Dear Graeme,
thanks a lot for your help again! I feel bad about my rant, and also feel bad for you to spend time on this. My frustration is that Slickedit makes a seemingly simple task too hard. I can not understand why this functionality is not part of the base package. I've tried CLion and other IDE's and this is one of the first things that "just work".
I've now also contacted Slickedit support with this question. I think this is such a broadly relevant question that there should be either a ready-made settings file for download, or a detailed PDF with the steps required, or this should be part of the core distribution. If you don't have something ready-made, please do not spend too much time on it!
Thanks a lot Graeme and all the best, Mario